Ignorant

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
Assalamualaikum.

See my frequency of writing is increasing aite?
Proud face.
Tapi kalo setakat nak tulis testing 123 takyah nak kire increasing sangatlah. hahahah

So today ive been talking to my friends, whatsap ing actually
About how people can be so ignorant.

People tend to share their happiness with others
Well there is nothing wrong with that
But if it is over the top
And u are literally sick of it
To the extend u get a nausea just to look or hear their name
Left alone their 'stories'
Then rest assured that u are dealing with ignorant people
Got it?

Why did i categorized them as an ignorant people?
Simply because they dont think about others' world
And they felt like the world is only revolve around them.
ONLY.

For an example, and based on my experience
Pregnancy.
Yeah, it is the best thing that could ever happen to any women in the world.
We got it.
And mind me, i dont want to know every single things that happened to u throughout ur pregnancy
Whether ure feeling nausea, cannot eat certain things, u want to eat shoes and watsoever u name it
I just dont wanna know
Why? Am i being ignorant?
No? It is simply because I am still waiting for my moment.

I got it, yes u are pregnant and im happy for u. Seriously. Congratulations. Big smile on my face.
But if ure ever cross the border by literally reporting to me every single thing uve experienced,
Trust me, ure automatically been trash into do-i-care group.
Simply because ure being too ignorant to care about mah feeling yo.

This not only happened to me, it happened to few of my friends also
Who are trying their best to put smiley face on their face
Yang sedang redha dengan ujian Allah
U got it?
So please dear people, please be extra careful with what u share with ur friends
We dont mind if ure sharing with persatuan ibu ibu mengandung kawan kawan yang turut sama mengandung suka duka mempunyai anak baru kawin sebulan terus update status saya akan jadi ibu ayah oh happynya and wat so on
We couldnt care less

We sure feeling happy for you, for sure, but thats it
Bear in mind that we human have feelings
We smile, yes, but the pain deep inside
The tears u dont see
The inferiority u dont feel
U dont know
U just dont
U re too busy experiencing ur pregnancy journey which some of us has yet to feel.
And too busy sharing ur exitedness with others including those who are praying hoping trying for a miracle to happen

Ada anak, dah kawin, belum kawin, takde anak, dah keje belum keje and so on...
Trust me, they dont need ur story.
Seriously.

Till then.